Just the word alone can make you nervous. Puts kids and money in the same sentence
and you’re really in for a scare. Is there a way to teach your kids about money
without going bonkers?
I have
no idea. My approach was best described as "whatever works," if not completely haphazard.
We had
chores, we had allowances, we had plenty of “no” responses to requests for
things, and then we had too many presents on holidays, and I promise you:
I still have no clue about what I was doing or not doing--let alone if I was doing it right.
I have no
idea if my son knows the real value of a dollar, five dollars or fifty, for
that matter. He was
really good at getting out of chores, but we nagged at him, and eventually he
would do them, money or no.
On the other hand, we
bribed him to do all kinds of things (homework, ironing, cleaning the salamander tank). Bribing is not
recommended with kids, but in the real world, you do it, especially if you are desperate
to get something done.
What
about you? Do you get your kids to “earn” every dollar? What are your plans
about helping them pay for college? (Ours got lucky because a grandparent died
and left some money behind).
What
about figuring out a consistent approach to money with co-parents after a
divorce? (Cue incessant laughter from the
audience).
What
about grad school? (Don’t get me started). What about saving for
your own retirement? Going through a recession
and losing your job and wondering what you were going to do about all the
expenses including college?
What about… putting your head under a pillow and
screaming for the next 20 years?
The
only thing that I think really worked well concerning teaching my son something about money was a job he took during high school at a masonry business. The owner was so mean and the
work was so hard, he decided he really wanted to go to college because he didn’t
ever want to work his life away in a place like that.
Of
course, I had nothing to do with this decision or this lesson. So I can’t even
take credit for it. But are artists really supposed to know how to be "smart" about money? What does that even mean?
And no, I don't mean to use being an artist as an excuse, because it isn't. I just can't hold myself up as an example, and if you knew me, I'm sure you wouldn't want me to. As a
complete failure at coming up with good tips on this topic, the only thing I can do is share some articles from
people who, hopefully, know better:
7
Ways Smart Parents Teach their Kids about Money
Hope they work for you!
Baby with money photo: familytreasures
Hope they work for you!
Baby with money photo: familytreasures
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